The Girl at the Bus Stop

 


She was the girl at the bus stop. I saw her there every morning, as she waited for her school bus. She always stood there confidently, quietly, patiently waiting with her head held high. She didn’t need a crown to show her royalty. All eyes were already on her and she was aware, but she never budged. Light skinned she was, and fresh like the early morning dew. Her skin was so smooth, looking like she moisturized it with whole fat milk. Leaning sideways onto one leg and hands buried in the pockets of the skirt of her school uniform, she faced the rising sun that reflected its light on her face, spreading it to all that was within the reach of her radiance. I was only 15 years old but the memories have been triggered like it was yesterday. That’s all I remember seeing, but I heard more in the following years to come.

Baby Steps

I heard tales of a beautiful, proud, elegant young girl casually cat walking as it drizzled on the tarmac road between the lush green trees of Kiyovu. Others ran for cover, clearing the runway as the trees hummed and the raindrops met the leaves swaying to the rhythm of the wind, creating a tune only she can walk to. With arms swinging back and forth, and hips side to side, every stride complimented the music as her symmetrically arched feet gently tapped the puddles of water, creating but a slight ripple like a ballet dancer. Years later, our paths crossed once again as we attended university. She was a freshman and I was in my third year. News about a beauty queen gracing the streets of the small town of Butare had already reached my ears by the time I met her again. She was just as beautiful and graceful as she had always been. The conversation we had was brief, as she stepped out of her room and locked it behind her, on her way to class. There was not really much to catch up on, but the interest in knowing how I was doing was genuine. It was not until she flew overseas that we started interacting more and getting to know each other personally. The dialogues flowed smoothly, for we talked like we’d known each other for a while. It wasn’t long before she touched my heart for the first time.

The Cherry on the Cake

On the night of my 25th birthday, on 31st December 2011, I was hanging out with my extended family, as it is a tradition to transition into the New Year together. It was all joy and laughter in the house. The elder men, as usual, made themselves comfortable on the balcony outside, as they filled their glasses and sipped on Gold Label, Remy Martin and Chivas Regal. The ladies gathered in the kitchen and dining room, chatting as they enjoyed their hot cups of African Masala Tea, before setting the table with a sumptuous variety of dishes, each a specialty from each of them. The young ones lounged in the living room, plotting their next move of the long night ahead after munching the food to their fill and celebrating when the clock hits midnight. The unexpected call came right before the time marked the end of my birthday. The caller ID indicated a number from beyond the oceans. “Who could this be?” I walked outside, far from the noise and answered. “Hello?” “Heey,” she said. “Umh! Who’s this?” I just had to be sure. “You don’t recognize me?” “Whoa! Is it really you?” I exclaimed “Of course it is,” she laughed that soul refreshing laugh of hers. “Who do you think it is?” After a brief conversation, she said, “Well. I called to wish you a happy birthday. So…happy birthday and happy new year to you.” I still remember it like it was yesterday. I went back into the house blushing like a spanked baby bottom, which the family thought was caused by the surprise cake and song they had waiting for me. That phone call was the cherry on the cake.

Rya Joro (The Other Night)

I finally got to see her when she flew back home for her summer holiday in 2012. I was excited and couldn’t stay still like a puppy waiting on its owner to throw the squeaky ball, as I waited for the sun to start setting so I could finally leave my job and go see her, on the day we were scheduled to meet. She had suggested that we take an evening walk. “Yes!!!” I had quickly agreed. There she was. I spotted her as I climbed off the taxi moto; a silhouette with a hint of her complexion on the inline. She was clothed in a dark yellow dress that swayed gracefully around her, giving the illusion that she glided slightly above the ground, as she walked towards me. I was a little bit nervous, but excited and confident at the same time. I did not know what to expect, although I was not expecting anything. “What will we talk about?” I asked myself. “Where do we start?” “What in the world is going on?” I had no idea how memorable the night would turn out to be. I couldn’t help but feel proud when I saw countless necks of people breaking as they twisted around to catch a glimpse of the lady absorbing all the light from the street lamps along the streets of Kicukiro. We talked about a lot, but music was the main topic that guided our conversation. Amidst occasional glances and shy laughter between each other, we filled the skies with sweet melodies as we sang together in harmony to “Iri Joro,” a song by Christopher that was dominating the airwaves of Kigali then. I couldn’t help but say to myself, “I have to see her again,” when I laid on my bed that night and replayed the evening’s special moments. Sharing a pizza next didn’t sound like a bad idea at all. In fact, it was perfect.

Pink Rose

Sole Luna, Kigali’s top Italian Restaurant, was the place in mind. I knew exactly the table I wanted us to have; one that had the perfect view of the town’s night lights. Along with the rose in the vase on the table, and the smooth jazz instrumental serenading through the speakers, the mood was just right. However, it had been a chilly day and my sinuses decided to act a fool. But that wasn’t going to stop me. I was there a few minutes earlier before the appointed time, just to make sure everything was on point. It was. All, except my sniffles and blood shot eyes. She finally arrived and immediately asked me if I was sick. “Naah! I’m fine,” I replied hurriedly, “Sniff!” “Are you sure,” she asked. “Well. My sinuses are giving me a hard time, but I’ll be fine,” I hurriedly answered again, with a smile. And another memorable night began after she touched my heart again. She made me swallow my pride first, when she offered me the scarf she was wearing and wouldn’t take, “No, thank you. I’m fine!” for an answer. Then, she proceeded to take photos of me; photos that set in motion a future appointment with destiny that we both never would have imagined. We happily munched our meal after that and got to know each other a little better. She was the remedy to my ailment, as I felt better with every ticking moment spent with her. I didn’t want the night to end, so I asked her if I could walk her home. “That would get me an extra hour with her,” I thought to myself. She answered, “I’d love that.” And we were on our way. I was getting more and more comfortable around her, and so my stubborn, mischievous, and romantic sides were triggered as we walked by a private compound with a rose plant proudly waving its flowered branches just shy of over the wall onto the street. I knew there was a security guard lurking somewhere and thought I could climb up quickly, break off one of the bloomed flowers and present it to her before he knew it. But something told me, “No!” and so we moved on. I didn’t know it, but I’d get another chance one day, to give her a pink rose few years down the road. I did, and the time was just right.

The Fire Pit

We were on our second date as a couple. INKA Steakhouse was the place I chose, and solely for the fire pit the restaurant boasts. That made for a nice, warm, cozy night of comfort and bliss. Shortly after a tasty dinner of medium rear steak, we sat side by side, legs raised and crossed onto the pit wall, feet absorbing the heat from the fire up to our hands clutched together. I reminded her of the night I attempted to steal a rose for her, and expressed how glad I was that I got the chance to give her one this time, without a second thought. We had been dating for two months before she’d flown back home yet again, in September 2017, this time to visit her new found love, me. I was simply catching up with an old friend when I sent her a text and reconnected back in February. This time however, we didn’t stop along the way and move on with our separate lives like we had done over the past years since that night at Sole Luna. This time there was a deeper connection that we both couldn’t explain, or cut. We had both matured and risen from various experiences we endured individually as we grew over the years, and somehow, someway, the paths we chose led to a common crossroad that was each other. This time, we decided to hold hands and walk together forever.

All Mine

“Yes,” she had said. “I’d love to be your lady, and you be my man. I’d love to walk this journey with you, up until marriage and beyond. I want us to have children together, and I want to grow old with you. So God help us.” “God help us indeed,” I thought out loud with excitement and joy slowly rising up from my feet to my head, as my spirit assured me, “Yes! This is real.” He had orchestrated this relationship from way before we both thought we’d ever fall in love and be a couple walking to forever after. Every single moment we had spent together, every word we had spoken to each other, every song we had sung together were all a beautiful hand written story only He can write. She was the girl at the bus stop. And now she’s all mine. 

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